{"id":1636,"date":"2003-07-08T10:50:18","date_gmt":"2003-07-08T10:50:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog2\/?p=1636"},"modified":"2003-07-08T10:50:18","modified_gmt":"2003-07-08T10:50:18","slug":"dont_be_late","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/dont_be_late\/","title":{"rendered":"don&#8217;t be late"},"content":{"rendered":"<div align=\"center\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.fubsy.net\/images\/digicam\/fresh%20air%201.jpg\" class=\"photo\" alt=\"*gasp*\" title=\"*gasp*\" \/><\/div>\n<p>yesterday turned out to be a pretty fine day.  all the attention from my co-workers who missed me last week, a birthday lunch out, cake in the afternoon, a birthday card in my mailbox when i got home and then beer, pool and a lot of anti-subtle innuendo with shane.<br \/>\nactually, the evening with shane very nearly ended before it started.  i&#8217;m sure i&#8217;ve mentioned it before, but i&#8217;m pretty much always early.  unless we&#8217;re talking oversleeping issues on work days (such as today, actually) or uncontrollable traffic incidents, it is pretty much assured i will be early to any appointment or engagement.  so, of course, i got to the pub about ten minutes early and grabbed a table and a drink out on the patio, thinking i&#8217;d not have very long to wait before i could stop feeling uncomfortable sitting in a bar alone.  but, in typical boy fashion, he was late.<br \/>\nso i sat there, listening to almost-drunk guy try to talk the general manager into hiring his buddies and him to play on saturday nights, watching this half-naked girl and her scruffy boyfriend eat extra-crispy chicken wings (sauce on the side) and wrote imaginary lists with my sexxy new pen, all in hopes of not looking like a loser for sitting in a pub alone with a red beer.<br \/>\neventually, and with ten minutes left in my &#8220;thirty minute maximum waiting period&#8221;, shane showed up looking all rock-star in his shades.  god, how annoying is it trying to have a conversation when someone is wearing sunglasses?  you have no idea where their eyes are behind that tinted glass!  of course, i&#8217;m notorious for doing that.  at least my new sunglasses are light enough that you can see my eyes pretty clearly through them.  oops, i digressed.<br \/>\nyeah, i have a maximum waiting period.  if i&#8217;m scheduled to meet with you and you are more than thirty minutes late, i will leave, regardless of any other consideration.  i&#8217;ve made an effort to be on time and i expect the same respect from you.  i don&#8217;t think it is too much to ask that someone be on time for a pre-arranged meeting.  yeah, sometimes things get get fubared, hence the 30-minute window.  after that?  it&#8217;s probably not circumstance, more likely ill manners.<br \/>\ni almost forgot, but luckily lots of other people are talking about their particpation in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sh1ft.org\/26things\/\">26 things<\/a> this month.  so, who wants to go work on their lists with me on sunday?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>yesterday turned out to be a pretty fine day. all the attention from my co-workers who missed me last week, a birthday lunch out, cake in the afternoon, a birthday card in my mailbox when i got home and then beer, pool and a lot of anti-subtle innuendo with shane. actually, the evening with shane <span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span> <span class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/dont_be_late\/\" class=\"more-link\"><span>Read More &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-photos","category-words"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1636","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1636"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1636\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}