{"id":1676,"date":"2003-09-08T09:18:15","date_gmt":"2003-09-08T09:18:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog2\/?p=1676"},"modified":"2003-09-08T09:18:15","modified_gmt":"2003-09-08T09:18:15","slug":"boys_girls_head","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/boys_girls_head\/","title":{"rendered":"boys, girls, headaches"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"sleeping<\/div>\n

remember when i was talking about all that happiness i was feeling? some of it has slipped away. rather, i’ve lost some of my perspective while trying to figure out if i’m doing the right thing when it comes to boys.
\ni’ve been feeling like i’m always doing things backwards when it comes to men. having internet relationships hasn’t helped that at all, i’m sure. there’s this fictional script i believe i should be following when it comes to relationships. it goes something like:
\ngirl meets boy at some social function or at a trendy coffee shop\/bookstore.
\nboy asks for girl’s number.
\nboy phones girl and asks her out.
\ngirl and boy go out.
\non second date, boy kisses girl.
\nafter a certain period of time, boy and girl have delightful, romantic sex.
\noption a:<\/b>
\nsleepovers commence.
\nboy and girl are officially a couple.
\nparents are met.
\nhappily ever after.
\noption b:<\/b>
\nboy thinks girl is horrid in sack and never calls her again.
\noption c:<\/b>
\ngirl thinks boy is horrid in sack and avoids his calls.
\nsee, where i think i keep going wrong is not minding the certain period of time before the delightful, romantic sex rule.
\ni’m suffering the whole “why buy the cow” dilemma. it’s a horrible contradiction. we’re told that good girls don’t sleep around, but that also seems to mean that good girls also don’t sleep with a boy they think is hot without some sort of committment. why can’t we? if the boy is cute and interested, why is it so wrong to get naked with him?
\ni suppose i’m just afeared that the boy will think it’s just the sex when there’s a hope for more. i don’t want it to always be just the sex. i want there to be the love and the romance and the committment, complete with the trust, the respect and the quiet affection, too.
\ndammit, i guess i do want it all.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

remember when i was talking about all that happiness i was feeling? some of it has slipped away. rather, i’ve lost some of my perspective while trying to figure out if i’m doing the right thing when it comes to boys. i’ve been feeling like i’m always doing things backwards when it comes to men. …<\/span> Read More →<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1676","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-photos"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1676"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1676\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}