{"id":2839,"date":"2012-08-23T10:11:21","date_gmt":"2012-08-23T10:11:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog2\/?p=2839"},"modified":"2013-07-04T21:18:28","modified_gmt":"2013-07-05T04:18:28","slug":"its_not_goodbye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/its_not_goodbye\/","title":{"rendered":"it&#8217;s not goodbye.  yet.  maybe."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>i forgot my blog&#8217;s twelfth birthday. i&#8217;m sorry, weblog. you&#8217;ve been good to me. you deserve better&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>2011:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/time_flies_and\/\">time files (and so do i!)<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2010:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/pass_the_cake\/\">pass the cake!<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2009:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/well_fuck_me_ru\/\">well, fuck me running<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2008:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/belated_like_al\/\">belated, like always<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2007:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/2007\/08\/\">(it looks like i was busy trying to buy car, and forgot)<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2006:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/trolls_and_stal\/\">trolls and stalkers and spam, oh my!<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2005:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/belated_blogday\/\">belated blogday<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2004:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/four_fucking_ye\/\">four fucking years!<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2003:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/2003\/08\/\">(there were technical difficulties of some sort, it seems)<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2002:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/time_flies_3\/\">time flies<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2001:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/who_woulda_thun\/\">who woulda thunk it<\/a><br \/>\n<b>2000:<\/b> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fubsy.net\/blog\/archives\/2000_08_01_index.html#616063\">the post which started it all<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>12 years<\/li>\n<li>2,835 entries<sup>*<\/sup><\/li>\n<li>12,020 comments<sup>*<\/sup><\/li>\n<li>eleventy-million designs<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.fubsy.net\/blog\/archive\/images.html\">all the photos<\/a><\/li>\n<li>4 computers<\/li>\n<li>3 cars<\/li>\n<li>2 apartments<\/li>\n<li>1 girl<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>with twitter &amp; facebook, texts &amp; imessages, friends &amp; boyfriend, the reasons i started this website in the summer of 2000 just don&#8217;t seem to be there for me any longer. i find this place a thing i feel i <em>should<\/em> update, rather than one i <em>want<\/em> to update. i come by once a month or so to put some more words on the internet which no one but a handful of you with it still in their RSS reader will read. unless they&#8217;re famous or topical, no one wants to read the verbal diarrhea (flashback: that was the title of my first website circa 1994) of some fat, forty-year-old cat lady.<\/p>\n<p>since i seem to have become a crazy purging minimalist, i wouldn&#8217;t be surprised to find myself cleaning out the cobwebs from these URLs one day. i have no concrete plans to mothball and\/or delete anything (i kind of hate it when people just randomly delete their entire web presences &#8212; especially if they do it often), but i can forsee a time when i might try to curate it down to the &#8220;best of heather 2000-2012&#8221; or something a little neater than this shitty default template of bleh.<\/p>\n<p>i&#8217;ve met so many amazing people thanks to this blog. seriously, so many amazing people i call my friends because we started reading each others&#8217; thoughts on screens over the last decade or so. some, i&#8217;ve lost touch with and wish i hadn&#8217;t. some, i&#8217;ve lost touch with and don&#8217;t mind that much. but, to those who are still in my life, just a little or very much a lot, i&#8217;m so thankful for your friendships, so grateful for showing me your worlds as i showed you some of mine. you&#8217;ve all helped to make me a better heather.<\/p>\n<p><sup>*<\/sup>these counts don&#8217;t include the six months of blogger.com entries which weren&#8217;t imported individually into the subsequent CMSs &amp; didn&#8217;t have comments to start with, so i had to use a third-party comment system which eventually went bye-bye without an archive.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>i forgot my blog&#8217;s twelfth birthday. i&#8217;m sorry, weblog. you&#8217;ve been good to me. you deserve better&#8230; 2011: time files (and so do i!) 2010: pass the cake! 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