You know what I don’t like? I don’t like people saying “I still miss my mom and it’s been X years”<\/p>\n
It feels like a competition and it makes me angry. <\/p>\n
Fine. Want to make it a competition? <\/p>\n
I win. <\/p>\n
Know why? I haven’t even fucking finished grieving yet. I haven’t had to spend her birthday without her. Or thanksgiving. Or xmas. Or motherfucking mother’s day. <\/p>\n
You’ve had a shit ton of practice living without your mom and – right now – I’m the goddamn valedictorian of not knowing how to get through each of those days without mine. <\/p>\n
Also… geezus. Thanks for basically telling me that it NEVER GETS ANY EASIER. Fuck. That’s exactly what I need to hear right now when I’m eyebrows-deep in sad and hurt. Thanks a bunch!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
You know what I don’t like? I don’t like people saying “I still miss my mom and it’s been X years” It feels like a competition and it makes me angry. Fine. Want to make it a competition? I win. Know why? I haven’t even fucking finished grieving yet. I haven’t had to spend her …<\/span> Read More →<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-words"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3152"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3152\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3153,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3152\/revisions\/3153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/fubsy.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}