i have a friend with an asian fetish; although, he hates it when i call it that. he’d rather name it — if it has to be named at all — an asian preference<\/i>. bullshit. it’s a fetish. he lusts after asian chicks. he’s a rice king; although, he hates that name, too. he calls himself a rice prince<\/i>. it’s all about the perception of impropriety, you see.
\nwe were talking last night about all these beautiful asian girls he’s meeting and lusting after lately. i got quiet after a while. i didn’t have much to add to the conversation. i don’t see anything special about asian women. just as i don’t see anything special about italian men. “people are people,” to quote depeche mode.
\ngetting to the root of it, it made me feel inadequate for not being asian. for being a hulking, caucasian girl with brown hair and round eyes and white skin. for not being a sylph. for not being mysterious and demure. i said to him at one point, “us poor caucasian girls just can’t compete.” he didn’t reply. he knew i was right.
\ni’d like to think i’m pretty open-minded about the people i lust after. yeah, i have a thing for accents; but, i’ll take almost any accent. i’ve had crushes on just about every kind of person i’ve been exposed to: white, black, asian, indian (east and native), european, boy, girl, old, young. i’m an equal-opportunity luster.
\nif i’m completely honest with myself, part of my discomfort with his preference<\/i> is that i’ll never be one of the preferred. he may love me and value my friendship, but i’ll never been that “cute asian girl” he’s always talking about. it hurts. then again, it usually does when you reveal truths.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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